In talking with Danita last night, she asked that I request your prayers for her. She's out of town right now but wanted/needed to feel your presence.

We've all reached some crossroads in our lifetimes, and when we do, it's the prayers and support of our family and friends, and most importantly, God's grace, that sees us through it all.

Danita is experiencing her own crossroads and would like to solicit your support and prayers at this time.

I know you. Your love unconditionally. It's who you are. So I'm very confident in knowing you will pray for God's love and mercy to aid her in the journey she has chosen to take.

I also know that I can say in her absence, thank you ... from the bottom of her wonderful, kind, and caring heart.

JJ

It's funny that you should post this here this morning, JJ. Danita's already been on my mind a lot lately. I haven't seen her here in quite awhile, and haven't been able to stop thinking about her - and I've learned that when God puts someone's name in my mind like that, it's because He wants me to carry her/him in prayer. I'm convinced now that it's why I have insomnia - it seems like He wakes me up with someone's name in my heart, knowing full well that I won't be able to sleep again until I pray for that person, even if it's a groggy prayer!

So I'm already carrying Danita in my heart and have been for several days now. Keep us posted on how she's doing?

Prayers are going up right now!

Will do!

Sending a spiritual connection and prayers to Danita.

Prayers and ((HUGS)) for a sweet lady.

Prayers from me too for our lovely lady, Danita. She is truly one of a kind.
Thank you JJ for letting us have the privelege.
Luv
chick

Danita,
If you get the chance to peek in here, we're lifting your name up honey....We're here!

JJ

Lifting you up in prayer Danita!

Cheers,
Cathi

Adding Danita to my prayer list.

Danita: may you feel God's embrace and may his grace surround you with peace and confidence that he will see you through!

Remember we "can do all things through God who strengthens us"-Phil. 4:13.
Blessings!

We just emailed a few days ago. I will continue to pray for her. She's on my friends list.

Hi everyone,

I typed a long response yesterday - and it went to "la la land".

Anywho, yesterday I was getting onto BWS trying to figure out how to start a new topic - so I could ask for prayer, and lo and behold, I find you are praying for me already!

Thank you so much, your love and kindness brought me to tears.

Well, the news is that it looks like my husband and I are divorcing after 20 years of marriage. I am just heartbroken.

The insanity of his life came to light march 6th - and I have been trying to "work with him" since, to no avail. He keeps making bad choices.

I have been in Seattle for 2 weeks going through training with Alaska Airlines. God has finally given me wings! (lol). I will be a customer service agent at the denver airport - the part-time job will help me in my transition, giving me benefits and some other options.

I am going forward with joy, believing that God has a plan for my children and I, to bless us, and give us peace and joy.

Please pray that I would remain strong, that we would be able to come to equitable terms, and also pray for my kids.

Thank you for your prayers and support, it means the world to me!

I love you girls!
danita

You got it Danita. We love you too! Hold fast honey...God is there and so are we!

Much love, JJ

Oh Danita, I am SO sorry. I was hoping this wasn't what was going on with you, but I strongly suspected it. I know how much this is breaking your heart, please know that we are here for you.
I will be at the Denver Airport on Sunday, Aug. 6, picking up my 13 year old. If I come to the Alaska Airlines counter, might I see you there? I hope so...I will give you a REAL Boomer hug.
Peace, sweetie.

Hi Danita, I hope you pop in here again. When I returned to BWS, I noticed your absence. I'm sorry for what you are going through. I am amazed at your strenth to take steps for the job at DIA! Love and Light, Lynn

Danita, I'm sorry for your difficult situation. I hope all works out for the best.

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Danita, my heart goes out to you and your children.
Know that we will always be here for you. You can come here
to cry, vent, air it out, kick something...whatever you need
to do to make yourself feel better, we've got your back.
((((((Hugs)))))))
Cindy

Hi everyone,

I am doing well. I have my moments, believe me. The saddest part is feeling like I am losing the "life partner" that God gave me.

When all this first happened, I was grieving the thought of spending the rest of my life alone (and I've been thinking the next 20 years are going to be my best). I've realized that I don't HAVE to be alone - and there is a good chance that there is the "right guy" out there for me. I'm not in a hurry, BELIEVE me...but I'm hopeful.

I started my "on the job training" out at the airport...it has been wonderful.

The hard part is going from two weeks on my behind (classroom training) to 8 hours on my feet!

Thank you praying - God is good - HE is able - and HE is enough!

hugs,
danita

p.s. On my first day I met a woman named "DANITA"!!!! Now, I'm 40 years old and I have NEVER met someone with my name. How cool is that.

This is so frustrating because I posted a message to you and like so many of my other posts, it vanished. Grr...

You are a beautiful woman, inside and out and you will land on your feet (not that you have to worry with your new wings!) Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Something tells me you're gonna come out of this with flying and glowing colors. Congrats on the new job!

Danita,
I'm so sorry that this is happening to you but want to wish you luck with your new job and your new life.
My prayers are being added to the list.
Stay strong!

Well now you know ladies what I have known and been upset about since meeting our beautiful Danita here in Vegas in June. She confided her problem to me and I was so sad for her and unable to come up with any real answers although we talked and talked. Some men are just plain nuts and this man has done unforgivable things to this wonderful kind and loving woman. I have been praying for her and hoping the new job will bring her joy and opportunity to put this sorrow behind her which won't be easy because it snuck up on her. Sometimes we suspect and other times we haven't a clue and thats the worst. I am saddened to know that unfortunately Danita is not alone and I am in contact with two other women having marital difficulties as well. I guess being single is the safest way to be these days...There are some good men out there so if you have one even though he may not be perfect, hang on to him and cherish him because the majority of them are as--oles!!

There is nothing that is 'unforgiveable'. Since Jesus forgave us our sins, there is nothing for us, that we cannot forgive.

Danita mentioned he wouldn't mend his ways, that's another thing, but being forgiven is not an option, it's a commandment.

Danita, I worked with a gal named Danita in Sacramento once.

Janine Marie

Danita, happy to see you are enjoying your new job. I'm not surpriaed. SInce meeting you, I feel as though you are the type of person who enjoys most everything in life. Keep trudging forward. God heals all wounds and I'm grateful for your faith in the great physician.

Anyone heard from our Boomer Bud?
chick

No, and I sent her an email many days ago, letting her know when I'd be in her area and hoping to meet with her. She's probably been busy with her training.

Danita, I'm sorry you're going through a divorce,as it is not what one hopes for. But I'm glad about your new wings. May God heal your wounds and take you forward each day, to new heights. He will see you through. Keep the positive attitude. It makes a difference! Blessings and a tru boomer hug (((( )))))!

Anyone heard from Danita? I am picturing her running back and forth to the airport for her new job, while caring for the kids and selling Arbonne every opportunity she gets. I hope I'm right!

Hi gals,

Here am I.

I just got home from Seattle tonight - flew in on my new wings. Graduated with flying colors(excuse the pun)...hated to come home to reality.

In seattle I was "one of the kids"...felt like I was 20 again, living in a hotel, eating out, no responsibilities. LOL. I COULD live like that! (isn't that horrible!)

I spent Weds. evening with our amazing Lynne (spelling? sorry)...she is just a doll. She came and picked me up - took me to her "turf" and showed me paradise. I figure it'll be about 3 years till I move to Seattle - it is just lovely! Lynne is a beautiful woman - who is a joy to be around....we tooled around in her convertable, ate a wonderful dinner by the water, and took a short tour of a 1910 wooden tug boat. Sooo much fun, so little time.

Anywho, I am doing well. God is on the throne and in charge. It IS a juggeling act Dots - but it is going well.

I got an amazing email from my 17 year old before I went back to training - it made me cry. She talked about how watching me handle this "situation" gracefully has blessed her beyond words...and that I'm her hero. OMG, is that precious or what.

Thank you for your kind words, your thoughts, and your prayers. I am the most blessed person on the planet.

I am hoping to catch up with bluebird tomorrow (I'm a busy girl, aren't I (LOL))))...she'll be in Denver.

anywho, I'm off to bed - exhausted...just wanted to check in and send my love.

You girls are precious in a huge way. I hope you know that!

hugs,
danita

CONGRATS!

I love coming here and finding a note from you, miss social butterfly person. Good for you on all counts, especially the note from your daughter. She has had some great influence in her young life and that's you hun, this is obvious. How caring of her!

Drop in when you can land for a bit.

JJ

Danita, absolutely wonderful...I am so happy that things
are getting better for you day by day : )

Please keep us posted. We love ya!

Well I met fabulous Danita last night!! We had dinner at a wild place in Denver with my husband and my 3 youngest kids. We had time to talk and take pictures. I'm posting this from the hotel, which has Wi-Fi. I am going to try to load the pics into my laptop now and email them to those lucky ladies whose addresses I have, but I think my camera batteries are dead. If so, I will do it as soon as I get fresh batteries.

Danita is a warm, attractive, energetic woman with a great spirit and attitude. I'm am so glad I got to meet her! Thanks again, Dotsie, for making my life more full and interesting.

You are so very welcome. I have also had the pleasure of meeting Danita. Don't you just love her spirit?

I can't believe Danita and Lynn also met.

Check it out...here's Danita in the middle of a rotten situation with her marriage, and she is out reinventing herself and meeting boomer women. You HAVE to LOVE HER> What an inspiration.

And Danita, you got to meet blue and some of her family? How cool is that?

Can you just see Lynnie and Danita bombing around in a convertable? You all are too much fun.

These posts bring tears to my eyes! Honest to godness!

What a time Danita and I had!
It was like we've known each other for years!
I do believe she fell in love with the Pacific Northwest.
I don't know why not.......it's the most beautiful place on this planet. As far as I'm concerned.
She did ask if it was true about the rainfall, and I kinda hesitated, and then pointed out all the wonderful green around us and told her it was well worth it.
Danita is a beautiful, determined woman to get on with her life, and I think I may have given her some good advice.
Right Danita??????
Since I'm old enough to be her mother, and have gone thru a Legal Separation after 41 years of marriage, I think I do know a little about what's she's going thru.
And she does know that God is with her thru this whole thing, and she will make it.
I'm still being told I will be fine, and will be ok living on my own, but it does take time to start to believe it will happen.
I'm still working on it.
You go Danita........take those wings you just earned and soar!!!!
Lynne

Oh geez, I feel like an idiot. I thought Danita and Lynnie met becasue I knew they lived near one another, but it was Danita and LSmith. How cool is that? Lynne, I can't believe you are old enough to be her mother. Really?

LSmith, the longer you live with healthy thoughts of making it on your own, the sooner it will happen. Plus, you have all your boomer women friends offering prayers and good wishes for you!

How cool of you gals to meet each other! That must be awesome! Congrats, Bluebird , Danita and LSmith, and all of you boomers who've had the privilege of meeting another boomer friend!

Danita, keep up the positive attitude! God will be wiath you each step of the way!

Danita, I am so proud of you! This meeting one another is truly a blessing. I know meeting Dotsie was a blessing and an honor for me. Hang in there Danita, I have a feeling the best is yet to come!

Cheer,
Cathi

Cathi, I'll email you soon and let you know wehn we're coming to VA Beach so we can do another meal together. Is there a Cheescake Factory there? HA!

Dotsie, just to set the record straight, I (Lynnie from CO) and Danita have met in person face to face at her house. Soon after I moved from KS to CO, I went to Danita's house. It was my first trip through CO by myself. We hit it off right away because there is nothing NOT to like about Danita. L, L

What a blessing to meet friends you've known, but not seen for a while. Although it is different, I met some friends in PR from my younger days and was blessed!

Danita, I pray you are strengthened in the Lord and tasting success and accomplishements in every step of the way!

Dotsie,

You betcha! I am already trying to decide what flavor of cheesecake I am going to order this time, LOL.

You know, this ought to be an honor to the Golden Girls, they were the first to show that baby boomers had more fun and class than any other age. Made me anxious for the time to come, LOL.

Sorry, didn't mean to hi-jack the thread. But I will add, I wish you can come here too Danita.

Love and Cheers,
Cathi

Hi everyone,

I'm looking back and realizing I didn't comment about my "whirlwind" visit with bluebird.

We went to Casa Bonita - you haven't been to denver if you haven't gone there. It was so much fun to spend time with BB, her husband, and her wonderful kids! What a NICE family! We waited in line for at LEAST an hour to get into the restaurant - but it WAS worth the wait - being able to show them a "mexican paradise" with cliff divers and everything!


I can't tell you what being a part of this site has ment - and little by little meeting the boomers. I'm up to 7 (meetings with different boomers)...can anyone top that? LOL (dots and jj, you don't count...sorry!)

Anywho, I have gained MUCH widsom for you all, and continue to thank God for each one of you. Who would of thunk you could find wonderful friends on the computer! LOL

hugs,
danita

p.s I'm giving away two stand-by Alaska Airline tickets this month - go to my website to check it out!

I met my best friend in NY in an internet chat room, 10 years ago! But he only lived 15 miles away...
Denver is not that far and I'm sure I will have many more airport trips in my future, so I know Danita and I will get together again. I'm still planning on meeting Lynnie, too. And within the next couple of years, I will get up to WA so I'll be able to cruise around in Lynne's convertible.
Next east coast trip, I plan on seeing Dotsie and Avalon and if I can head south, I will be laughing it up with JJ.
We may be taking the family to CA for Christmas (in lieu of gifts, isn't that cool??? No shopping!) so I will stop on the way to meet Chatty.

Hi everyone,

Please add my daughter to the list of people
to pray for - she has left home to go live in the mountains with her boyfriend. She is only 17. Apparently this is how she plans on dealing with what is going on in our lives...I am heartbroken.

Here is a poem that I gave her when she broke up with her first love...and now, I find, I can relate to it also:

After a while
you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand
and chaining a soul.

And you learn
that love doesn’t mean leaning
and company doesn’t mean security.

And you begin to learn
that kisses aren’t contracts
And presents aren’t promises.

And you begin
to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open,
with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child.

And you learn
to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans.

After a while
you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

And you learn
that you really can endure...
that you really are strong,
and you really do have worth.

That poem is lovely Danita.
I will pray for your daughter's safety and happiness.
All the best wishes are being sent your way!

Oh Danita,
Prayers are being sent for all concerned. I can only imagine your heartbreak. I do understand all too well though. My own sons played out the trauma of a divorce in many ways. Hold to your faith. It will sustain you.

JJ

Danita, don't laugh at the questin, but does she have a cell phone with her? I know you'll have some peace of mind if you can at least speak with her. How is your son handling this? He's younger than your daughter, right?

I am praying for your broken heart to heal knowing that she will more than likely return home safely before too very long.

I will pray for her too!

Danita, your poem is touching. I have you in my prayers every day and I will include your daughter and son. You are precious to us here. Keep us up to date when you can.

Blue, you will get to meet Ms C, the hilight of Vegas. How cool.

luv,
chick

Thanks everyone for the prayers - I knew I could count on you!

I am at a place of total surrender for my life - in all areas - and I'm just sure this is where God wants me to be...it's that old saying "I don't know what my future holds, but I KNOW who holds my future". I truely am resting in that.

Dots, believe it or not - I had just gotten my own cell phone and one for her - so she DOES have a phone. And I was thinking the same thing - at least I can get ahold of her. I'm worried about her getting into drugs and/or alcohol - so please cover her in prayer against that. We've talked, she sounds good.

I guess (as selfish as this might sound) Becuz she is so strong and mature in some ways - I hadn't REALLY considered how this whole mess would effect her emotionally. Duh. I was just heartbroken when my father left my family when I was 12.

Last night on the way home from work I had a good cry, praying for my family. I can't tell you how much I grieve the loss of what I believed to be a gift from God. I am going forward with expectations of great blessings, but mourn what I'm moving on from.

I know God could still do a miracle...but my eyes are on HIM, and what he has for me...HE has to deal with HIM. LOL

It is all good.

So anywho, another day....

hugs to all you amazing sisters!
danita

p.s. I didn't write tht poem - someone emailed it to me...I find it so precious!

danita

Danita, your faith shines through your words. I am praying for you and yours. As difficult as it is to see some of our children's decisions, prayer does more than anything else. I admire your trust in the Lord and know that God is already answering your prayers. Keeep holding on to God and he will take you where you can continue to shine brighter than ever for him!

Oh, and that poem touched my heart too! Beautiful!!

Danita, I hope your daughter will learn what she needs to from this decision, without being harmed in any way.

The poem is very "true."

Hi everyone,

Thought I would post an update...and if anybody has a few extra prayers to send up - I would appreciate it.

Well, I think I am at the "anger" stage of the grief process (after 6 months, it is probably about time). I had a total meltdown 2 days ago - threw things, slammed doors, yelled at the top of my lungs "I am NOT o.k." all at the "man" who is on his way out of my life. (this is so unlike me)

He is so non-chelant (however you spell that world) about destroying our family, and walking away becuz he does not want to be married anymore. (really he just wants to screw around - and I won't let him have both). It is just mind boggeling.

I will have my own place by Nov 1st - and I know that will make a big difference in my mental state. I won't have to see him every day, and know when he doesn't come home - or when he goes out.

I am trying to pull myself out of the "depressive funk" I have found myself in this last couple of weeks...I keep reminding myself to keep my eyes up!

On a good note, I took my two precious teenagers on an "air trip" (I have wings now, ya know)...we hopped on a couple of planes last Sunday and went to Disneyland for my 41st Birthday. I so needed to do something special for myself this year. I will never forget that quick trip - I was just in tears walking into the "magic kingdom".

So anywho, that is what is new with me. I LOVE my job at the airport (though I hate being a working stiff. lol)...and as a whole, I know that my life is going to be blessed from here on out!

hugs to ya'll...

I'll try to find myself posting in another area soon!

Danita

Danita, We do all love you so much, you are so dear to all our lives and we hold you in our hearts and our prayers. I know because you and I discussed your marriage long ago, at length how unhappy you are to lose him, well not him as he is now, but the him you once admired and adored. It will get better, slowly but it will. We are here for you anytime night or day. You know you can call me at any hour just to talk, scream or whatever you need. You are the innocent one in all this, you and the kids. God see's your pain and will eleviate it as he sees fit. You are so beautiful, inside and out,(I met you) so I know. It's the Mountain Man (private joke) that is guilty and will pay the price once he gets out there and see's what (trash) awaits him, yuk!!! He will curse the day he went nuts, he is you know, NUTS!!! Fly high Danita, with or without your wings..
Love you, HUGS!

So many people have been where you are, including moi. I will tell you this. IT DOES GET BETTER. Hold your head high, Danita. Carry on with YOUR purpose and don't give him room in your heart, except for forgivness. If not now (I know it's hard) then later.

You are a strong woman and will survive. I am sure of this!

As Chatty stated, we're here and we're your extended family if you need us. Sending lots of love your way for you and the children!

JJ

Oh Danita, it was so great to hear your voice last night. (We spoke about an Arbonne order.) I could tell by the strength in your voice that you've still got that strong will and determination to survive and thrive due to your abundant faith. While you may feel down in the dumps, please know you are an inspiration to many of us here.

I congratulate youfor taking the kids to Disney for your birthday.That's beautiful. I am so grateful to hear your daughter went too. What a blessing.

I know we aren't suppose to wish time away, but I can't wait for November 1 to arrive for you. If you can make it while having to see his comings and goings, just think about how much better you will be when you aren't involved with those constant reminders.

Danita, since meeting you face to face and witnessing in these forums how you are working things out for your best and the best of you children, I know God holds a tremendous future for you. Keep the faith girlfriend. You are strong, wise, witty and devoted to Him, so you WILL be okay.

You girls are just so darn percious. You have me in tears.

Thank you for speaking words of blessing and faith over my life (and my children)....believe it or not, such encouraging words have given me a vision for my future.

I'm with you Dots about wishing away the time -- I'm trying NOT to do that, but looking forward also to throwing a "new beginings party" at my new home. MY home, which will be filled with MY fathers' spirit!

Knowing the three of you, as I do...haven't there been times in your life when you've just said to God, "ahem, Lord, I know trials brings about character...but, um...I think I have ENOUGH character already"!!! LOL

I do know that I have an even newer level of compassion for people - more deapth, I suppose.

My heart breaks for the mountain man, litterally. He is an empty, broken, bankrupt shell......I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like to walk in his shoes for one day. Believe it or not, I think I've forgiven him (right from the begining, if that is possible)...I believe one of my gifts is "grace"....I don't hold grudges, I don't think badly of people (even when they deserve it). I pray that God would bring him to a place of surrender, and that he would rebuild his life with GOD at the center - and that he would be healed and totally restored. I have no personal vision to have him in my life - but I am totally available to whatever God has for me down the line!

Well Chatty, JJ, and DOTS...thanks for the extra prayers..and encouragement....I'm going to take a look at other forums and see if there is somewhere else for me to post!

hugs, hugs, and more hugs,
danita

I thank God for the deep connection and relationship that he has given me in friends like you all. For me, life is all about loving, giving, connecting.

Danita: I continue to pray for you and your loved ones. It's good to know you enjoyed the trip to such a beautiful place.

I'm glad you'll soon have a place of your own and know it will be the beginning of new blessings unfolding in your life. You are a woman of faith and compassion. Certainly the Lord has a superb plan for your life. Never give up!Continue trusting in him and He will fulfill His purpose in you! (Read Psalm 38).

I wish for you a day filled with hope, strength, peace and the wonderful promises of direction from above!

Hi guys,

Well, it looks like on Octber 12th I will be moving into my new place. We found a rental that pretty well meets my kids and my needs.

I am excited, frightened, and sad all at once. I still can not fathom that I am at this place..

Anywho, please continue to pray for my kids and I. I physically need to be quickened to do all that I need to do - to keep things afloat.

hugs,
danita

Danita is in my prayers - thanks for putting out the request - you are so caring!

Danita, I think of you every time I use my Arbonne products. Now I'm going to change those thoughts to prayers for you and your children. Count on it.

Danita, I'm glad you'll soon have a place to call your own. God provides for his children. A change of place, a fresh new start will help as you strive to make the best of your situation and focus on the today and the possibilities God has in store for you! I continue to pray for you!

Hi everyone,

wanted to do a quick update before heading to the airport...

The kids and I moved into our own place two weeks ago - I feel like I'm in the promised land - or I have risen from the dead. (lol, just call me Lazarus!).

We are doing well - my home is a sanctuary - it is lovely, peaceful, and all mine!

The transition has gone remarkably well - I guess after 6 months of trying to deal with "his stuff", it was just time to move out and move on.

Next week I head to Puerta Varata (however you spell those darn words)...a very old and dear friend from MD called me, told me a girl had "fallen out" of their trip and would I like to go in her place. When I figured out the trip was going to take place during my 21st "un-anniversary"...I jumped right on it. Woooo hoooo. Fly for free, stay for free...just pay to eat. Isn't God good.

Anywho, I have to go get beautiful. I can't wait to catch up with everyone. I miss you all!

hugs,
danita

God bless you and keep you, Danita! You are already beautiful and you have an amazing trip!!
Big ((HUGS))!!! I miss you but I'm so glad you're well. God is SO good.

Danita,
What a wonderful thing to happen to a wonderful gal. You just live it up and have a ball! I command it!

JJ

So glad you came here to share your good news. I sent you the info you asked me for in your email. My door is always open my friend....Have a wondeful trip.Does the word Latin Lover give you any ideas? La-co-ca-racha, la-co-ca-racha da, da, da, da, da, da, dah! Sorry my Spanish stinks...

Oh, Danita, I pray you enjoy this trip with all your heart! You deserve it! God is great, providing such an opportunity. Blessings!

Glad to see you back, Danita, and that things are
looking up for you : )
Enjoy your free vacation!
Cindy

Wonderful news Danita! Go Girl!
Hannelore

Danita, I believe you carry your sanctuary wherever you go. I love your outlook. Keep that chin up girl. I think the hardest part is behind you. Enjoy that trip. Perfect timing. Thanks for the update.

Danita, I am so glad to hear from you. You are an inspiration to us!

Love you all Best!

Cheers,
Cathi

Dots,

You are right about carrying my sanctuary with me.

I have to tell you ladies, it has been 8 months since "the big discovery" and I am amazed where God has carried me in this timeframe.

I find myself 5-10 times a day thanking God outloud for all he has done for me.....I am in such a place of peace. It is just supernatural.

I know that all my friends praying for me and supporting me has made a huge difference! Thank you ladies, I don't take it lightly.

No "cabanna boys" in Mexico Chatty (LOL).....just books, girlfriends, beach, sleep, no duties, no kids....fun! Can't wait!

anywho - I'm going to go find out what else is going on with you guys....

going forward with extreme joy,

danita

And we're lucky to go foward WITH you. The vacation sounds heavenly!

Danita, the trip sounds like it's going to be awesome. Wish I could meet you there!
((HUGS))

I, like Eagle Heart, have been thinking of her for three days now. She's stronger than she thinks she is if we're feeling her. I been talking to her out loud in the mornings because she's been so heavy on my mind. God Bless.

Hi Gals,

Here am I.

I have been without a computer for almost 2 months - someone should have just amputated my right arm. LOL

I finally broke down and financed a dell laptop - I am laying cozy in my bed with my wireless baby! wooohooooo.

Well, the trip to Mexico was one of the best trips I have ever taken. Perhaps it was becuz I only had to worry about me me me! It was relaxing, beautiful, and just plain wonderful.


I have a story....."a funny thing happened on the way back from the courthouse".

Last weds was sapposed to be our final appearance before the court for our legal seperation. In colo. a legal seperation is handled just like a divorce, except you can't remarry until you put the divorce through.

I've been feeling like I am just OVER this whole marriage thing - and wanted to turn the seperation into a divorce NOW. I had felt I had been "led" to file for seperation first, then if HE still didn't make any advances towards reconciling - to file for divorce in March (it would be one year since the insanity started). Well, I battled what I wanted, and what I felt led to do - and I decided to be obediant to what I believed was right. So I left everything as a seperation.

Anywho, we went before the judge, got our papers, and walked out. As I was driving away to go meet a girlfriend for dinner, I looked down at my papers and they said DIVORCE not SEPERATION. Wooo hoooo. the court made a mistake.

I was just shaking! IT IS FINISHED! I am a LIBERATED woman. And let me tell you, I feel like a new person. Like I've been let out of a long prision sentance..and I'm free at last!

I called him the next day (becuz I knew he wouldn't look at the papers, and I thought it might be good for him to know we are divorced)...he gave me the ole, "well, I was thinking last night how this whole thing is so unfair to you -- keeping you hanging -- so it's proably a good thing. I'm relieved for you". arghhhhh!

I was like, "OK", and changed the subject. LOL!

So that's my story and I'm sticking to it!

I'm not working for the airline - it was consuming my life. It is just too important that I be here for my kids. They are doing exceptionally well - they have such precious hearts. They just want me to be happy.

I am working my send out cards business with every ounce of my being (thus I needed a computer). I am having fun sharing it with businesses showing them how it can help them build their clientel base, and keep the customers they have.

I feel good!

wooo hoooo

hugs,
danita

p.s.. "I'm baaackkkk"!!!!!

Danita, you sound so happy! What a relief, and what a wonderful vacation you had!

Very nice to have you back, and I wish you every success!

Kathy

Danita: So glad you are happy and remaining strong. God has surely carried you through... May you have a wonderful christmas and may you enjoy each day as the blessing it is.

Danita, thank you for letting us know your story. Is your daughter living with you? Under your beautiful pic it says that you are in Denver. How could the courts make a mistake? At least it was in your favor. Love and Light, Lynn

Danita what is the send out card business? PM or email me okay? Always looking for ways to promote my business.

Hi Girls,

I feel like I've come home after a long stint on the moon. LOL. Not just the computer, but finding myself again.

Lynne - I've missed you and have tried calling you to no avail. Apparently I have the wrong number.

I don't see how to PM you ladies on this new format - does someone want to let me in on the secret?

My daughter is home with me. I had a long heart to heart a few months ago - I addressed that I felt like she was modeling her fathers' behavior (running away), and that as a part of the family - that I need her IN my life (and her brother needs her also)

She responded. She will be 18 in Feb., and is working towards saving money - getting a car, etc. Her and I both know we will feel better about her "moving on" after she is prepared v.s. just "bailing" on the family. Tks for asking.

She just broke up with an abusive boyfriend (who was much like her father (surprise, surprise, surprise)....please keep her in your prayers that she stays strong, and stays away from this guy.

June and SB, it's good to be back - tks for the welcome!

Chatty, click on the link and check it out. I will set you up with 2 free cards to send out. (my christmas card that you rcvd was sent via the company). This is an excellent tool for realtors, mtg people, etc....a way to supplement what you are already doing.

hugs,
danita

No real mistakes in this life, right Danita? What a great story! I wish you and your children the very best with the beginning of a new life!

Danita, soooo good to hear from you and your picture is lovely! I lost the digital pics of us from our get together (they were in my hard drive, which got wiped out!) so if you still have a couple, could you send them to me when you have time?
So glad things are well with you and your children. I hope someday, you and your husband can get along well enough to make things more comfortable.
Have a blessed and healthy Christmas, dear lady.
(((HUGS)))

Danita, thank you for signing my guest book. I was so delighted to see all the BWS who signed it! It was GREAT of you to go there, too. Yes, I have changed my email and phone number since last summer. You tried calling me? I do remember your daughter had moved out MUCH too soon. Are you home schooling them as well? How do you do it all, plus this MAJOR life transition. Are you as snowed in by the blizzard as we are in the springs?

Lynnie,

ahh haa, perhaps you could "PM" me your new info. I would love to be in touch with you!

Yes, we are absolutely snowed in here. Argh. Good thing I have a computer!

Yes, I'm still trying to homeschool them. LOL. When I'm doing what I "should" be doing in my life - all is balanced and well.

B.B. I don't know that I have pics. I don't think I had a camera. Darn. My ex and I are on ok terms.. he will come over christmas around 10, watch the kids open presents, have lunch with us - then leave.

I've forgiven him, but I've also moved on.

danita

Danita, it's great to see you back and happy
as can be! Hugs, Cindy

Danita, I'm glad to hear about all the good things that have been coming into your life. The final "divorce " was right. You sound more contented now, and deserve the best.