0 Registered (),
185
Guests and
2
Spiders online. |
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
3239 Members
63 Forums
16332 Topics
210704 Posts
Max Online: 409 @ 01/17/20 03:33 AM
|
|
|
#43994 - 01/19/05 12:19 AM
Marriage
|
Member
Registered: 09/02/04
Posts: 12
Loc: Yucaipa, California
|
After over 20 years of being single, and at the age of 53, I was married on December 21 to a wonderful baby boomer of 56. Don't know why I worried so much about living with a man after all these years because it has been "heaven" having a man around the house.
|
Top
|
|
|
|
#43996 - 01/22/05 08:06 AM
Re: Marriage
|
Member
Registered: 11/11/04
Posts: 3503
Loc: Colorado
|
Smilin, I saw that you are from "outer space." I have known my husband, a boomer too, for 21 years exactly this month. We have been married since 1988. I never would have guessed that marriage could be all the more richer and deeper as we "age." So, Smilin, where are you really from? Love and Light, Lynn
|
Top
|
|
|
|
#43997 - 01/23/05 08:13 AM
Re: Marriage
|
Founder
Registered: 07/09/08
Posts: 23647
Loc: Maryland
|
sunshine and smilin definitely have something in common. I've been married to the love of my life for 26 years. He's my "bestest" friend in all the world. Lynn, I love hearing from happily married women. Congrats!
|
Top
|
|
|
|
#43998 - 01/24/05 02:30 AM
Re: Marriage
|
Member
Registered: 10/30/02
Posts: 144
Loc: Linthicum, MD
|
Dotsie, you are so modest...you and your hubby are THE perfect couple...I talk about you two all the time...and I have known you since you were born, so I can tell the whole story. You guys are SOOOOO great...beautiful (and handsome), talented, dedicated, organized, focused, great parents, wonderful siblings and devoted children...nobody could ask for better family and friends than you and your wonderful hubby!!
|
Top
|
|
|
|
#43999 - 01/24/05 03:39 AM
Re: Marriage
|
Founder
Registered: 07/09/08
Posts: 23647
Loc: Maryland
|
Micki, where's all this coming from girlfriend? shhh..., but thank you so much for all the kind words. I often think about how God was looking out for Ross and I when we were ignoring Him and got married. We didn't even want to be married in a church. (I'm ashamed to say.) Had to be married outside. I'm grateful we chose to turn our lives over to Him when we did. He continues to bless our union, which in turn allows us to parent and love our children, parents, siblings, family and friends even more. I give God the credit for being at work in us.
|
Top
|
|
|
|
#44000 - 01/25/05 06:31 AM
Re: Marriage
|
Member
Registered: 11/22/02
Posts: 1149
Loc: Ohio
|
Sunshine, I'm 53 and have been married for 3 years to a guy who's now 56. It's been great! We have everything in common, but sometimes we wonder (just for fun) if we'd have hit it off had we met 30 years ago. [ January 24, 2005, 10:32 PM: Message edited by: DJ ]
|
Top
|
|
|
|
#44001 - 01/25/05 08:29 AM
Re: Marriage
|
Member
Registered: 09/02/04
Posts: 12
Loc: Yucaipa, California
|
DJ...
I know Tom and I would not have been compatible 30 years ago. I guess it takes years of living life, smoothing out the rough edges, trimming the branches back, etc. to get to the person I am today where he and I are sooooooooooooo compatible. We already finish each other's sentences and think about the same things (scary)! Glad to hear you have been so happy--looking forward to 30 years with Tom.
|
Top
|
|
|
|
#44003 - 11/04/05 01:29 AM
Re: Marriage
|
Member
Registered: 11/03/05
Posts: 4
Loc: Northern CA
|
iT IS IMPORTANT THAT WE HAVE SOMEONE THAT WE CAN RELATE WITH AND ENCOURAGE US WHEN WE ARE DOWN. I KNOW THAT MY HUSBAND, OF 35 YEARS, IS A GREAT ENCOURAGER! WHENEVER I AM SICK OR HAVE JUST GOTTEN MY CHEMO TREATMENT, HE IS ALWAYS THERE TO MAKE SOME JOKE, OR JUST SAY 'I LOVE YOU' OR EVEN MAYBE SAY A LITTLE PRAYER FOR ME. IT IS SO WONDERFUL TO HAVE HIM HERE WITH ME!!! [ November 03, 2005, 05:31 PM: Message edited by: Merium ]
|
Top
|
|
|
|
#44004 - 11/05/05 01:17 PM
Re: Marriage
|
Member
Registered: 09/24/05
Posts: 171
Loc: 10 yrs in OH now, 47 yrs in Tx
|
Merium, I am 1200 miles away from my family and friends. I first had a stroke then breast cancer. I know my healing without God and my husband would not have been as fast or easy as it was without them both. He was with me every step of the way. My best friend, who lives in NM, called me every night, almost, and sent me gifts like flannel PJs and cuddley things, we live in OH and it was cold. Support is a key to having a healthy attitude and welness in my opinion. My 3 sons called often of course, but were not like my husband and best friend.
|
Top
|
|
|
|
#44005 - 11/05/05 06:34 PM
Re: Marriage
|
Queen of Shoes
Registered: 05/24/04
Posts: 6123
Loc: Arizona
|
My husband and I are like the tv show, Mad About You. We play off each others words. We both have a very dry wit. It's been fun. I have a question for you gals. My husband works in another state so most of our marriage is based on phone conversations. The problem is, he doesn't do good phone. It's short and sweet. Too short most of the time. So, how can I spice this up a bit. Now, Chatty will tell me...I know what she'll tell me but a lot of our phone calls are when he's at work so I can't do that! And ideas out there?
|
Top
|
|
|
|
#44010 - 11/07/05 12:36 AM
Re: Marriage
|
Member
Registered: 08/08/05
Posts: 816
Loc: Fredericksburg, Va.
|
It is just amazing to me how God puts people from all walks of life together...to create an answer to one's prayers.
Praise God.
|
Top
|
|
|
|
|