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#198449 - 01/25/10 12:21 AM Re: Libido.... [Re: jabber]
chatty lady Offline
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Registered: 02/24/04
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Loc: Nevada
I would so rather have a good loyal husband, than some sexed up wanderer. Jabber it sounds like you've got one of the good guys. You might try asking nicely for what you'd like, a back rub, foot rub, a hug, even a kiss.
Most women,me included would say; "if he doesn't do it on his own, well, I'm not going to beg!" I felt that way too until my grandmother said, men aren't ever as affectionate as we are and need to be led just like little kids. Ask and you shall receive and after awhile he might think to do some of that stuff on his own. Kudos to him for being content to be home with the woman in his life...that is a very important plus.
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#198454 - 01/25/10 08:02 AM Re: Libido.... [Re: chatty lady]
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Registered: 11/19/08
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Loc: American living in Germany
Has anyone tried to take viagra? I wonder what would happen?
A stiff neck?
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#198479 - 01/26/10 12:26 AM Re: Libido.... [Re: Edelweiss3]
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I suppose they could take viagra and eztenze and get a long, stiff neck...My bad?
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#198486 - 01/26/10 03:12 AM Re: Libido.... [Re: chatty lady]
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chatty, I like the way your grandmother thought. I believe in asking for what I want.

Never tried viagra. Who knows, maybe you'd get a stiff leg?
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#198503 - 01/26/10 02:30 PM Re: Libido.... [Re: Dotsie]
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Registered: 02/17/05
Posts: 10032
Loc: New York State
You gals are funny! Stiff neck? As Chatty would say, my Aunt
Fanny! LOL... Well I'm a bit independent too. So, I guess that
doesn't create a very affectionate twosome. But I'm going to
try to be more loving and see what happens. I'll report back
after a while and let ya know!


Edited by jabber (01/26/10 02:30 PM)

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#198986 - 02/03/10 12:03 AM Re: Libido.... [Re: jabber]
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Well it's been awhile, so how's that workin for ya Jabber??? As Dr. Phil might ask...
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#199010 - 02/03/10 07:33 AM Re: Libido.... [Re: chatty lady]
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Registered: 11/07/05
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OMG..the stiff neck comment is so funny...I am laughing out loud here!!!
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#199072 - 02/04/10 12:02 AM Re: Libido.... [Re: AvalonBlondi]
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What amazes me nowadays is what is seen on prime time TV. Extenze to make his 'short comings' longer, or Viagra to make them firm and longer lasting, oh and the latest two men hooking up, holding hands walking off into the sunset.

Then there is the lubrication for men and women, and they show them in bed before, and then after the deed is done, all disheveled and looking (stupid) satisfied. Plus every kind of feminine product from lub, to a vibrating finger gadget and all types of birth control. One thing they seem to have forgotten with the women are two holding hands walking off into the sunset.

Does anyone remember when none of this was permitted? Heck, you couldn't even show an add for feminine napkins on TV back then.

What is the world coming too? Do we really need to see all this crap in adds on television? I think not!!!
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#199112 - 02/04/10 07:12 PM Re: Libido.... [Re: chatty lady]
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Registered: 04/15/07
Posts: 1341
Loc: Sweden
Chatty..I LOVE your profile picture!!!! Avatar or whatever it´s called nowadays over there!

But honey..think of everything that is on the net nowadays..I mean there are no limits anymore..and the "young generation" has access to it anytime..

My experience is that they seem to have a much more laid back attitude towards sex..AND this can also help in making sex much better because they talk about it..tell eachother what they need..because it´s kind of, well..natural..not mystical anymore..but it can be OH SO GOOD!!!! Because both get room to make it good for eachother..you know: "No, don´t do it this way..I need it there..softer..gentler..OK..YES..now yo got it!!!!" I mean..why not make it better if you can? Our generation has had our kids..most of us..and we have the time and space to make it good..with time. And when we do..it can be darn mystical,too smile

reporting from Sweden..can´t help this pun..but I AM reporting from Sweden!! grin

Chatty..your logo is so beautiful.. I mean your thought that follows comes at the end of your posts
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#199117 - 02/04/10 10:08 PM Re: Libido.... [Re: humlan]
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Registered: 11/19/08
Posts: 1758
Loc: American living in Germany
Sex nowadays is like eating a good meal. For many young people the daily bombardment on this subject has taken the romance out of sex, and has made it even … mechanical. Your correct, Humlan, “there aren’t any limits anymore”, but that certainly doesn’t make it right.

Most of us come from the hippy generation where free love was advocated. We were quite laid back without sex being constantly blasted at us from MTV, television shows, movies, lyrics and commercials. It used to be cool to interpret what the lyrics were. That isn’t necessary today,…it’s all laid out for you in every detail.

I preferred it the way it used to be. Even some childrens’ shows here are more than vulgar.
If my stomach turns at some shows, or I feel embarrassed watching a family program with my kids, it’s my instincts that are talking. And isn’t instinct a natural way to protect our children and grandchildren? Oh yes, I truly trust my instincts, more than any desperate ordinary advertising campaigns.
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