Jackie, I was thinking the same thing. Chatty, if you don't want to pay them, don't mention it. Yikes.

PL, sounds like a lovely retirement community. Is in it PA?

Heres one for the books. I went to the bank today and the store and when I arrived home I found (one date with) Glen sitting in my living room talking to my ex, the mouch!

He stood up right away and said; I hope you don't mind sweetie, but I wanted to ask your ex if it was okay for us to attend the Valentines Day doings at the clubhouse on Saturday night.

My ex just sat there with a sinister smile on his face that made me want to slap it off. I lead Glen outside and told him in no uncertain terms, I wouldn't go with him now if he begged me on his knees. Then said 3 things. . .

Number 1, my ex has NOTHING to say about anything I do, reason he is called EX!!!

Number 2, who does he think he is coming to my home with me not being there, and he'd know because my car was gone?

Number 3, then I said get out, stay out and forget you know me.

Before slamming the back door I said; looks to me like he should be friends with my EX, they seem like two of a kind, both idiots. Goodbye!!!

As I closed the back door, I heard the front door close as well, my EX had escaped my temper by running off and avoiding me. BUT he has to show up sometime!!!!

Quick, change the locks!!

You are so funny Dancing Dolphin. Now where is that screwdriver???

Yes, Chatty, throw his suitcase out in the yard, and change the locks. Men are so obtuse. If I recall the details correctly, this new guy has an ex as well, and you met the ex? Can't keep it straight, all this coming and going with

Yes he has an ex, met the ex, she was very nice. He allowed her to come live with him while she receives treatment for cancer. They are friends to a drgree. TOO much baggage for me....

I am living it Princess and can barely keep it straight myself!

Chatty, this all does sound like soap opera material. Don't you wanna get away?

Chatty, below please find a link to locksmiths in your vicinity:

http://www.superpages.com/yellowpages/C-Locksmiths/S-NV/T-Las+Vegas/

It surely is a soap opera Lynn (AS THE STOMACH TURNS,) no one could make this stuff up, its too unbelievable not to mention stupid.

Oh and thats always been my thing. When I become overwhelmed I pick up and scidaddle, head for the hills. But this is my home etc. and I would lose everything. I think I can keep from blowing his head off awhile yet, at least I hope so.

Glenn is a loser. He lied to you in the first place.

End of story IMHO. You have enough with your EX living at your place.