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#136870 - 01/06/08 12:59 AM
Re: Nest emptying again
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No, not me, but I have empathy for you. What I really want to know is who made the stuffed shells, and what is the recipe?
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#136871 - 01/06/08 03:14 AM
Re: Nest emptying again
[Re: Princess Lenora]
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Registered: 12/21/07
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No college kids, but we did have the boys [26 & 28] along with 1 fiance' and 1 Serious girl firend running in and out from Thanksgiving -New Year's. They only live 70 miles away in the same town they went to college in. So, I run in and out at their houses too, not as much though. Plus I usually arrive bearing Goodies, LOL. I do hear and feel your sigh though, our oldest went on an Exchange Program in college (6mo) & later lived across country from us & we only saw him once a year at Christmas. He moved back last Spring after 4 years. I remember that Gosh Awful silence. It was deafening, so quiet you wondered if you could still hear. As often as we see our sons, as old as they are, I still have a brief moment of that Empty Nest sigh as soon as I loose sight of their tail lights. And I say a Little Prayer same one I've said since they started driving. "Sigh" qball
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#136873 - 01/08/08 04:07 AM
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Yes, Dotsie, I would like that. Wow, I bet the kids love coming home to Mom's cooking. Like I said, I can't relate to empty nest, I can only imagine. The leaving has to feel like a pinch of loss each time.
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#136875 - 01/16/08 03:38 AM
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Registered: 12/21/07
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How ya doin' by now Dotsie? I got loss-pinched tonight. Our 28 y/o son came by for a visit (had to be in the area on business). He came in had supper and was gone again with in just a couple hours. Before he left he said he was tired, LOL I wanted to tuck him in bed. I don't think seeing them leave will ever get completely easy.
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#136876 - 01/16/08 12:08 PM
Re: Nest emptying again
[Re: QBall101]
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Registered: 08/22/07
Posts: 1761
Loc: Southern Maine, USA
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Dotsie, there's nothing like the whole family together. But now as the years roll by, they'll just be mutliplied. Imagine....daughters and sons in law, little grandchildren running around. You have much in the next phase to look forward to!
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#136878 - 01/17/08 05:49 AM
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Oh, how I remember those days. A piece of your heart seems empty. It does get better, though. And, as life goes by faster (the older you get, the faster it goes), the time between visits seems to grow shorter.
My girls and their families have moved close to us, both within 15-20 minutes with good traffic. But, we don't get to see them as much as when life was slower. They are busy with their families (one has 3, the other 4, children). We can go weeks without seeing each other. We are only a phone call away though, or an email message away.
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#136880 - 01/17/08 01:54 PM
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Funny you should mention it... I didn't get my annual pic of the two groups this year. hmmmm, I don't think the girls were expecting a call from me today, but...
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#136881 - 01/19/08 08:32 PM
Re: Nest emptying again
[Re: gims]
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Registered: 12/21/07
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Dotsie you are so right the focus should be on the positive. I do feel so very blessed that the boys live so close we can all be together within an hour if need be or want to. I enjoy our frequent visits even when brief. The boys will be here Wednesday, due to the wedding we're inheriting son's smallest big screen tv, plus storing some household things until our son & DIL2B's home purchase closes. Poor boys, little do they know Momma's got some more furniture moving in store for them too. LOL but, I'll feed 'em good. I'm at the point now the 'lonesomes' only last a few minutes after theyare gone. Then I'm fine with the peace and quiet again. WE do talk often and text some too + e-mail. So we are in contact more than just face to face visits. Grimster, your family sounds so wonderful, with the girls so close and 7 grands WOW! What fun!
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#136883 - 02/01/08 09:01 PM
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Registered: 12/21/07
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Dotsie, The wedding is 5/24/08. both families are very excited and get along so well. Her parents came for Thanksgiving & got to meet the last remaining gandparent on our side of the family. Tomorrow's the big day to go pickout bridesmaid/flower & mothers dresses. It's so wonderful to have another woman in the family, MIL is here some. But, day to day visits it's always been 3 men and me. LOL Now there's another girl in the nest.
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#136885 - 02/15/08 02:42 PM
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Registered: 06/03/04
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Loc: Massachusetts, USA
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I know the feeling-each time one comes and leaves again, it's a loss. But I try to focus on the purpose of it. It's still hard to see him go.
I have two of my three sons at home. The oldest, away in school, stopped by about a week or so ago. He was on his way to a business meeting taking place about an hour from home, so he stopped by for 10 minutes. He was unable to come home for Christmas, so I cherished those few minutes!
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#136890 - 03/04/08 07:30 AM
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Registered: 01/16/07
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Doesn't excessive sleep kill brain cells? Run that by her, Dotsie.
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#136891 - 03/04/08 11:47 AM
Re: Nest emptying again
[Re: gims]
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Registered: 08/22/07
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Loc: Southern Maine, USA
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I think sleeping in when possible is almost universal with teenagers and young adults. They tend to drive hard through the week and have late nights but when they crash, they truly need their sleep...a whole lot more than we require now. I remember spending Saturday sleeping until 1 pm when in highschool.
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#136892 - 03/04/08 06:52 PM
Re: Nest emptying again
[Re: Dancing Dolphin]
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Registered: 04/15/07
Posts: 1341
Loc: Sweden
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Rick and June, I have an 18 yr old for sale..any takers??? And at the same time, I know that I am going to miss him like heck when he finally makes the move! But he drives me crazy...some days, he and his friends are still awake at their computers in the kitchen when I go to work in the morning!!! And he has school work to do and he´s finding it difficult and I don´t want the worry anymore..he´s my 5th. BUT I don´t want to loose it/him either!!! Right??? I still catch up on my own sleep at the week-ends and sleep in until 1pm or 2pm..being a night person and living in Sweden where the winters are dark and cold even during the "daytime". So there we are in sync..most of the time. But I would like to make love in the middle of the afternoon sometimes, for example..or when we just plain feel like it. But that´s out of the question..and I am 60 allready!!! I hear you and I feel you...
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#136894 - 03/06/08 11:31 PM
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LOL You all are crackin' me up! My oldest 29 can sleep till 2-3PM if he's not got work that day. The younger one is usually up by 9 on his off days. YES it drives me crazy, but i used to drag in a 3-4AM, eat, crash and get up around noon. So, what can I say? One good thing about the empty nest is you don't know what time the hatchlings wake. Hannelore, You did the ice water thing too!!! LOVE IT! LOL our oldest used to come home after a night on the town and I'd hear this soft, 'mom, Mom, mom, you awake?'....I'd get up and we'd make a snack, coffee, sit & talk till time to get up. When he spends the night here we still don't know when to go to bed.
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#136901 - 04/08/08 06:09 PM
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Registered: 04/15/07
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Loc: Sweden
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Dotsie..believe it or not..I DON`T go nuts when everyone is at their computers and I`m off to work..I kinda smile to myself and wish I could be doing what they are doing..but I am older and don´t have the energy anymore..eventho I am a nightowl..but I need to sleep in..like your mom did, Dotsie! The way I look at it..you are only young once..without responsiblities..and you might as well enjoy it! Love, Peace and Understanding!
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