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#133439 - 12/02/07 01:42 AM
Re: How often...?
[Re: Edelweiss]
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Registered: 04/15/07
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 So did I..think that the question would be how often do you have sex  ...ok, closets..no special time span here..depends on me feeling the need to do it or above all, needing the space. It isn´t easy to throw out stuff tho..I mean just think if I "need" it a year from now or 3 years from now?? And that shapeless, washed out sweater..it´s sooo comfy on a rainy day at home!!!  I actually have a sweater that is over 20 yrs old and I wear it to work at least 1 a week when I need to feel that I am taking my cozy home with me...and it really works. People usually tell me that I look like I have lost weight when I wear it. Just goes to show you..if you feel good with what you´ve got..it´ll communicate itself to others 
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#133442 - 12/02/07 05:35 PM
Re: Guess that fooled ya...
[Re: jawjaw]
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Registered: 01/16/07
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Loc: USA
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When we have S in the closet.
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#133443 - 12/02/07 06:00 PM
Re: Guess that fooled ya...
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Registered: 03/22/05
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Loc: Canada
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Good answer Gimster!!
We give our closets a good clean-out every year when we go south for our annual winter getaway. We bring clothes (and shoes, jewellery, purses, etc) that just barely fit us or we don't use anymore (or bought on sale throughout the year), wear them while down there, then give them away before we come home. It works well, since it's a very poor country and the people can use whatever we bring - if they can't use it themselves, they either pass it along to someone who can, or they alter it to make something else, like clothes for their children, curtains, bags, whatever they need.
When Mom died, we brought a lot of her beautiful clothes (some of them hadn't even been worn!) down the following trip - there were many happy smiles that year!
The last time we were there, we brought a lot of children's clothes. And since we didn't make it there last year, we haven't cleaned out our closets in two years, so we'll have quite a lot of stuff to take down with us this next visit.
And whatever heavier stuff we can't lug in our suitcases, we box up for the local charity truck that comes by every month.
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#133446 - 12/05/07 02:14 PM
Seasons & color...
[Re: meredithbead]
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Ms. M, I arrange clothing by color, too. First, I put them together by the season worn, then by color sections. If I don't use something, I donate it. Last night, I finished cleaning the upstairs closets and dressers, chest and vanity. Now the downstairs needs a good going over. Problem is, I don't like housecleaning. Wish I did. LOL  Ciao,
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#133447 - 12/05/07 02:35 PM
Re: Seasons & color...
[Re: jabber]
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My problem with clothes is that for several years now I've had no sense of what suits me anymore. That combined with no income and wildly fluctuating weight gains/losses (more gains than losses), well, I just started buying cheap clothes that, well, looked cheap. Hubby got so disgusted with my choices that he upped my allowance (the government actually designates part of his pension for me, for putting up with his deafness - which is nice, but it means I can't complain about him not hearing me anymore!)
Anyway, I don't enjoy shopping for clothes for myself anymore (but I love shopping for my granddaughter!), so I only buy classic-style, STRETCHY clothes...hoping they'll take me all the way through to the nursing home years!
But now I have to clean out the closets and get rid of the really old favourite stuff that no longer fits - and new stuff I should never have bought in the first place.
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#133450 - 12/06/07 12:06 AM
Re: Seasons & color...
[Re: dancer9]
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Registered: 04/15/07
Posts: 1341
Loc: Sweden
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Bonnierose, I hear you! I don´t like housecleaning at all. Would much rather read a good book or maybe be here reading..it´s a necessary evil..housekeeping, I think!
Eagleheart..oooo, I getcha! Don´t like shopping for myself either anymore. And when I do, I find I have been dreaming..opitimistically..when I get to the fitting room and look in the mirror..I don´t look at all as I imagined I would or do in general. Very hard to find something that I think really looks and feels good. And I DO believe that we "are worth it". I just don´t know where to find it.
Dancer if you have any tips to give me near the Stockholm area..let me know.
Hugs!
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#133451 - 12/06/07 12:11 AM
Re: Seasons & color...
[Re: humlan]
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Registered: 04/16/07
Posts: 2411
Loc: Arizona
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Humlan, and EagleHeart, If I were in your shoes I would go to: http://www.tendertreasures.com/catalog/flax_clothing.html?gclid=CI7Up4qzkpACFSBeagodXFtu-gand look for clothing. or http://www.chicos.com/store/home.aspI would recommend these for ANY Boomer who wants to dress comfy and does not have to wear a suit, (and who does not want to spend a lot of money.) There you can find flowing tunics, pants with elastic waists that are stylish, tops of every type and pants of every type as well! They are always "in," the companies have sales ALL the time, and they have choices galore! ( You'd think I shop there but I don't!) I wore some of these when I was recovering from surgery and I was SO comfortable and could buy a new wardrobe for recovery without investing a lot of money! I normally wear dresses and such but these clothes were PERFECT when I was going to doctors a lot and when I had to lie down at times but still needed to go out and look good. They wash well, dry normally, and look great! Try them, for those of you who can wear these things and do not have to wear a suit to work! It's a great look that you can keep up easily! Just find your size and order away! These stores are all over the country and are REALLY popular with Boomers! They have proven themselves over and over as a medium priced store that sell comfy clothing that looks nice and won't break the bank! dancer
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#133452 - 12/06/07 12:29 AM
Re: Seasons & color...
[Re: dancer9]
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Registered: 03/22/05
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Mmmm, what a gorgeous site, Dancer! I've bookmarked it for further perusal! Beautiful stuff. I can't order anything online right now, but will definitely have a good look at everything for my next online shopping spree, maybe in January!
Thanks for that link, and for taking the time to find it for us.
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#133454 - 12/09/07 11:07 PM
Re: Seasons & color...
[Re: dancer9]
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Registered: 04/15/07
Posts: 1341
Loc: Sweden
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Thanks dancer..will give your tips a try..after Christmas probably..my finances are limping..at the moment..more like keeling over.. I also went crazy when the tunic style got going here again and bought myself a few. I love them with shorter skirts and tights. No, I don´t have the lovely Scandinavian legs..but so what. I like how I look anyway. And it´s so comfy. The kids think it´s fun that I wear tights like they do!!!!  Thanks for your help!!!
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#133455 - 12/16/07 02:38 AM
Re: Seasons & color...
[Re: humlan]
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Registered: 01/21/07
Posts: 3675
Loc: British Columbia, Canada
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I have NEVER considered organizing my clothes by colour. Right now it's a serious problem of space. Of course, my partner complains...
I did do some serious clothes weeding about 6 yrs. ago when I relocated to another region in Canada. And truly I haven't much since then. Actually most of the clothes in last few years have been:
*lycra based, solid coloured bright tops -- to wear casual or under a dress jacket. In various styles Long or mid sleeved for cooler and sleeveless for summer.
*T-shirts --admittedly have acquired several *cycling wear -- *4 pairs of shoes and boots *2 fleecy jackets for sports activities/casual *1 dress coat --that I love and everyone else seems too also.
Pretty modest compared to many other women.
Like meredith, I do choose classic lines with interesting fabrics or cuts....so I do make certain clothing last for over 10-20 years. It's a standing joke with my partner.
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#133456 - 12/16/07 06:36 PM
Re: Seasons & color...
[Re: orchid]
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Registered: 04/16/07
Posts: 2411
Loc: Arizona
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I understand this, Orchid.Like most models and dancers, at my age, I know what works on me and can pick my size off the rack. I have a stuctured way of dressing based on years of wearing clothing. Don't let my modeling photos fool you, I do not change clothing like that every day! I have my "basics," those things I buy all the time and in bulk, and I have my "uniform," which consists of the sytle of clothing that works on my body the best and is easy to wear everyday. I do not change that formula unless it is time for me to dress for a different time in my life, and even then, it stays close to the same since I was about 9! My mother was a painter until she became ill and sold every painting she did. She "designed," me based upon what she thought looked best on me and what hair style worked best on me. The funny thing is that after all my experience in fashion and clothing and all that I tried, I returned to see that she was, in essence, right! I dress that way to this day and my hair, although it changes a bit here and there, stays the way she chose to have it cut when I was a child! Very strange, no?
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