Trashy women flirts!

Has anyone seen the TV commercial about an attractive woman in line at the drive-thru Cleaners picking up her stuff? She looks in her rear view mirror and see's a nice looking man behind her in line waiting for his turn next and says to the clerk, "here I want to pay for a couple of his shirts too," and hands her the money. Then she says, "and give him my business card too." The clerk says "okay" and smiles nastily. No wonder men CHEAT, some women are such tramps and will go after anyone they see, not caring what his situation is or if he has a wife and kids at home. I have seen worse and have acquaintences that behave badly in that way. These poor men don't know what hit them half the time. I bet their egos are squeeling with delight. So if you have a good man, hang on tight and make sure everyday he knows he's King of his castle and of your heart. You never know when some B-witch might pay for his cleaning...geesh!

Yep Chatty, I have seen that commercial. Never thought of it the way you did, but you are right! How does she know if he is "available" or not?! A bit too agressive if you ask me!

One day a CSI team will be interviewing that woman.

My husband would just be happy that someone paid for his shirts to be cleaned.

Chatty, amen sister. Making our hubbies know thay rank is what it's all about! If we don't fill their egos, there are lots of other women out there who will.

Dennis would come home happy for 2 reasons. One, someone flirted with him and he did not have to respond. Two, someone paid for a few of his shirts and he enjoys getting something for nothing.

I trust my husband, but I also make him happy in so many ways.

Ann

It's a cute commercial, most probably directed at twenty-somethings. Yet, I've no doubt there are unscrupulous women on the prowl for the slightest weakness. I once worked with a woman who had a face like Miss Piggy, yet a bod like Bo Derek, and the men swarmed around her, married or not. She often flirted (verbal and physical touching), she told one man (he and his wife were trying to have a child w/ little luck) that she and he could make beautiful babies. She told another (who was married and had children) that if he paid for her flying lessons, she would make it worthwhile. Both men left their wives for her, and she dumped them. She did this to several men, it was simply a game for her. Who ever came up with a better deal or options for her, she was onto the next man. I've met other women like this (men too), scary!

Mustang, I don't know how people can live with themselves when they act like that. What fools those men were. I hopoe they learned their lesson.

Now you're talking Anne, they deserve each other and we'd get money too, can't beat that.

I had a friend who actually took a flirting class! They taught her things like sending a guy a drink at a club, etc. Never worked for her but she tried.

I always just let everything flow. If a guy was interested, he'd find a way to let me know. But that said, I actually asked the hub out for our first date. The man was so shy! Gads, what's a girl to do?

Anne, sounds like innocent flirting to me so long as you don't offer to pay for some of his groceries or he's there with a woman. LOL

Dianne, I like the fact that your hubby is shy. So is mine and I love it.

I'm shocked at so much on TV these days...there's no modesty, no morals...anything goes...you can't sell a hamburger without a boob being in between the buns.

Dee,ain't it the truth. And I don't care what time of day it is either. I thought they had to put certain shows on after 9:00, but it seems like that regulation is archaic.

Anything goes these days even on TV day or night. I sit here in shock half of the time.

You wouldn't believe what they show on German TV. Nothing and I mean nothing is taboo. I always told people how strict American TV is, till I watched a couple of programs at my brother's house. Wow...they aren't far from the German shows. But on German TV, they allow complete nudity and show every sex act you can imagine. I'm so glad I don't have teenagers living in my house anymore. I'm sure it´'s a stress factor for families living here.

Hannelore, I can't imagine it could be much worse. Our problem is that we have cable, and with cable you can get anything!

I can remember when American TV shows still had some dignity and control (older than dirt am I) and then Benny Hill came to TV and we were shocked, laughed alot, but were shocked too, hummm! Now Benny Hills humor would look like kids stuff compared to the crap they show air on prime time shows..

YEs there certainly are a lot of trashy women out there who dont care what the mans situation is and are just too happy to go for it, even if you are out together and dancing together!! Nevermind, I'm over that. What i am not over is the explicit and low morals of TV etc. And finding out the terrible things on hotmail emails. My poor little 14 year old woke up at 4am screaming, it seems he was worried about some chain emails threatening curses etc if not sent on and he woke up thinking that Bloody Mary was in his room. He was so shaken he slept the rest of the night with me. He told me he never could sleep in his room again. I have spoken a little bit with him about how sometimes when you dream it can feel so real and he remembered that is what used to happen to him years ago when he was wetting the bed (what a darling). Anyway we'll see how he goes tonite (this only happend last nite) and we spoke about a few options, like changing around his bedroom, letting the dog sleep on his bed for a few nites (although I might need to think that one through a bit more). My daughter then explained all about the horrible chain emails to me and she is going to look at his account with him tonite and help him make some changes. Gosh it is a hard world sometimes, and us parents need a lot of support to keep up with the times!!

Deb, ewww! All from emails? That's horrible. I once knew a little girl who saw a horror movie at a sleep-over and had horrible nightmares. She wouldn't even sit on the toilet becasue there was a scene where a hand came out of the toilet. Sounds ridiculous, but young minds can be so innocent.

That was how I got an uncontrolable fear of basements. When I was a kid I saw a movie where a women was taking her laundry basket up the apartment house stairs and was grabbed from between the stairs by boney ugly fingers, and when she fell backwards down the stairs this creature pounced on her and dragged her into the wall. I know it sounds ridiculous and it is but none the less basements are off limits to me unless there are other people around....These fears can and are very real to a kid and hey, I'm NO KID and still get the creepies where basements are involved.

I was reading last night that since the internet (porn sites/chat rooms) divorce rates have risen to better than 1 out of 2, as an average. Hell, why even bother then?

Yeah If we spent as much time talking to our spouses and kids as we do on the chat forums then we might be in a better place, however, I know that the opportunity to be part of these conversations actually gave me the strength to make my relationship work!! I think relationships are choices and the success or not depends on our commitment. Life is pretty hectic and it takes a lot of time to find 10 minutes alone to concentrate on important conversations.
My 14 year old is still sleeping in our room. He tries his room now and again but it doesnt last. I told my Husband that Tyler would not be in our room when he was 20, Tyler will get over it, just needs time. (I hope) any one experience this and have any suggestions? I might post something in the children threads.

Deb, Would it be too nosy for me to ask why your son Tyler at age 14, still needs to be in your room? I may have missed something posted earlier.

Hi Chatty, yes explained in an earlier post a couple up the page, and not usual. But he is getting better now. He is on Largactil, just 2mls at night to help sleep and he seems to be getting over it. Thankgoodness.
And I am going to fight those divorce rates and stand up for the family unit, despite chat rooms, internet porn and general difficulty in staying in the marriage relationship these days!!