Does anyone have to share them with X's?

I just KNOW it's coming. With DSD pg, next year will be the first Christmas with the baby. I just feel it's gonna be a war!

In our ten year marriage, we have never "had" the holiday with my s-kids. The mother is a whiney, spoiled thing that has always "had" it.

I just wonder how you all handle it if you do! Do you allow the kids to make the arrangements and tell YOU who sees whom when?

[ December 26, 2005, 02:00 PM: Message edited by: Di ]

We've always let the kids make up their own minds. They know that if we're home, they are more than welcome.

Yes, DH has said that. But I just wonder WHY they do not choose here for Christmas. I believe the BM has "control", but it's sad that the kids really don't even "THINK"......Hey, we should just spend Christmas with Dad sometime. Duh!!

Is it YOUR kids or your DH's, just curious.

[ December 26, 2005, 08:59 PM: Message edited by: Di ]