You may know her. She is neurotic about her house. Cannot leave a crumb on the counter; cannot allow a water spot to stay on a faucet; cannot relax when she has company; jumps up and must have everything perfect.

Once everyone leaves, she re-tidies and everything is back to normal in a few moments.

What if this person is your best friend and whom you love dearly from many, many years ago...how do you handle her??