in my 30's (no kids) and my doctor says that I'll never go thru menopause. I've been taking Premarin for 12 years now, but wondering if this is the "time" normal menopause occurs...AND if I should try weening myself off the pills. I did try but the hot flashes are terrible in addition to the heart palpitations. But I'd still like to do something with all the scare of HRT, KWIM??

Unfortunately, we have no health insurance. Mom died before she reached my age now so I have no family history to go by.

Any ideas out there??