A woman who is a friend of a friend has been calling me and we are going to do something together tomorrow evening. I've known her for about 5 years, but I have kept her at arm's length because she is an alcoholic and has not admitted it to herself. She was calling me before, sometimes very late in the evening and I could barely understand her words.

I'm just not sure I want to get involved, but if I think someone needs to be honest with her in a gentle way. I don't want to turn my back, either.

I'm sure there are some who are in recovery or have someone close to you who is. What helped you face the truth? I am interested in hearing your thoughts on how I can help her in a way that would be healthy for both of us.

Daisygirl