Foundhervoice,

I have seen this happen to people I've known. I also wish I could give you a big hug and/or be a sounding board for you to express your anger.

I do have a suggestion, though. Is there a divorce recovery group at any church in your area? A group would give you an opportunity to be with people who are going through the same thing AND a few people (the leaders) that will help you see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Daisygirl