DO NOT show any emotion at the mediation, hard I know but he will be trying to get your goat, cause you as much anxiety as possible. If you speak softly, never interupt the aXXhole while hes yelling (and he will yell if you are very composed and smile sweetly.) Keep your cool and just let him know HE and HIS problem are just that, HIS, not yours and you have a life to get on with. The sooner you're free of this cheating nut case the better....I'll pray for your composure, just think of all your Boomer sisters there with you because we will be, in spirit...

[ February 19, 2006, 05:36 PM: Message edited by: chatty lady ]