It's a difficult time for you and your children but bless their hearts for saying what they feel and want.

I think allianation of affection...you have to prove that you were actively working on the marriage and she wouldn't go away. That's what I've read anyway. Truthfully, I don't know that much about it but the one wife who won proved it, that was the case.

No wife should ever fear her husband. I wish you peace my dear friend.