Make sure the attorney you now have makes any agreement during the actual divorce commencerate for when he goes back to work. in other words he has to pay child support and bac k chilkd support once he gets a job and he MUST get work within a reasonable time. The lawyer can and should put this in any settlement papers before you sign a thing...some judges will also make the ex pay back the spousal support you haven't gotten due to his plan... I hope they fry this fish!!!The hotter the grease the better...Lets me see, in the First Wives Club I would be Bette Midlers character...LOL