Since I was the last to post my struggles with my marriage and comtemplating divorce, and saying I would check in, I will continue my saga.
Life with the husband is much better. But.....that doesn't mean a thing. He goes thru these changes, and then turns right around and turns into his "old self" again.
I did do one thing that I've wanted to do for many years.
I promised myself if I got to feeling better after all the medical probelms I've been thru I would get myself a sports car.
Well........I did it!!
She's a beautiful little Miata, and my Grandson(10 yrs)named her Butterfly Beauty. BB for short. I always name my autos. My SUV is "Butch."
Plus, I'm into Butterflies.
I decided it was "my turn", and did all the research, and wheeling a dealing that you have to go thru with a car salesman. Am so proud of myself for sticking to the price I was willing to pay, and told them it wasn't how bad I wanted BB, it was how bad he wanted to sell her. It worked...he shook my hand and said we had a deal.
Took BB to a friend who paints cars, motorcycles, trucks, etc. and he painted butterflies on BB for me so I would be able to tell which Miata was mine when I went to find her in a huge parking lot.
I didn't ask the husband if I could buy BB, I just told him. Now I just wait for the verbal abuse to start about him letting me buy my BB. We've been married (41 years this month)for me to expect him to change with all the verbal abuse.
I will still be having our talk the first of the year to let him know where I will be going with the divorce if he doesn't agree to back off with the verbal abuse and the money issues.
But, so far, so good since I last wrote about the perils of Lynne.
I had a great Halloween also. Went over to my oldest dtrs., helped hand out candy while she took the boys around the neighborhood. My other dtr. lives in the same neighborhood, so got to see the other two grandsons when they came by to Trick or Treat.
Of course, it was raining here, so the little ones were a little wet.
Love to all.....and your support on the divorce issues has been great!
Lynne