Don't leave- the law may not back you up later -in certain states if you leave it will be considered desertion
Divorce unfortunately turns out to be a game and kids get real hurt being the pawns in the game
Like I said before- he is their father and their world's are falling apart
He's wrong you are right but if the courts twist it all around you can lose-
And get the best lawyer you can
If you live in a state like I do- PA there is no legal seperation- and that means til the divorce is final there is no intent to dissolve the marriage- it's bad