Cathi,
The memories are mostly good and I like to think of him so don't feel badly for bringing this up. I kept it quiet while I went through this but I think it would have helped had I been able to share this with all of my boomer sisters.
My Dad was at stage 4 when we found out. There really was no hope at that point. He couldn't have the chemo because he was too weak. I'm praying that your father will stay strong and have a great outcome from the chemo. Duke is a great place for him to be!
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