Well I take my hat off to you for the courage you have shown up to now, you have not only yourself but your daughter and grandbaby to think of. I knew almost immediately that the man I married after a whirlwind long distance courtship was a BIG fat mistake and yet I weathered it out for nearly seven years, maybe I was just too lazy to make a move but finally I did and have never looked back except at the good years I lost, wasted on a bad marriage. I doubt either of us is a wimp but sometimes it just seems simpler to ignore things that cause pain...