Hi ladies.
Haven't checked into the web site for awhile - but happened onto this topic and felt I should throw out one other possibility to the hubby's low libido.....could he be looking at porn?
That seems to be a big problem for many porn addicts......they lose all interest/energy in having sex with their real life partners- becaouse all of their desires are being 'handled' by their use of porn.

So much time and effort is put into the porn (whether it be magazines, movies or the internet) that they don't need their significant other for their sexual releases.

Just might want to look for a hidden addiction.

If you care to check out the Oprah Show Message Boards - specifically the Nov. 30th show about the minister/singer that revealed his porn addiction. You might be enlightened to learn of all the women discovering that their husbands/boyfriends have been hiding porn addictions for some time.

Just thought it might be worth looking into from a different perspective- not to ignore health issues, of course!!!!!