Hi all, entering the conversation a bit late,,,i agree with Dotsie and those of you who say..dont be subtle. Men communicate very concretely and dont read minds (women do) so dont assume men want to be treated or talked as we do....Be direct. Tell him what you want in very direct terms..remind him of times you have had together..Don't apologize...
Women and men both have significant body changes at midlife...not easy for any of us...putting it under the carpet doesnt work...
Good luck!

in Adventure,

Jenn