Always remember BonnieK that all of the advice is great but ultimately, you have to do what works best for you.

We're here to lend support, if needed or offer sage (we're realllllly old) wisdom is you ask, but we wouldn't want you doing something just because we said so. I think you've figured that part out though.

Good luck with it all. Sometimes, living can be hard, but oh can it be wonderful too!