I think she's afraid of being shunned and treated like an outsider. When the oldest SS got married, I was included in the wedding by being given a rose just like the two moms, as part of the ceremony. I had some of my friends there too so I hung with them. It can really be a very uncomfortable time. I lost seven pounds before the wedding just from dreading it. I did, however, look great in my dress!
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