You've heard me whine about the guy I reconnected with (at the grocery) a few weeks ago. Well, we finally met last week and he really does seem like a genuinely decent guy. I think we will see each other again, but this is going to be slow - but I'm okay with it. The last guy I dated started asking me to do things for him after a month that just were not appropriate, like participate in the basketball team he coached. That's something a wife does not a new girlfriend. He wanted to push, control and plan my life for me.

I've met guys in the park, walking my dog, the bike path, parties, a bar, church, Bible study group and a date auction and I learned that you should be careful no matter where you meet them. You should never give your heart to someone until you know them very well and have met some of their friends and family.

Has anyone ever done the 1 date per 5 minutes deal?

Daisygirl