I'm with Dotsie. I was a professional dater, meaning I dated a lot but the majority of men were nice. Sure, there were a few duds and those few were bad news, one stalker included, but when I met my husband, he was so different. Our beginning relationship was based on business talks. We both love business, go figure!

Have any of you considered that some of these guys come with their own questions? Yikes! And, the players know exactly how to act because they've read up on what women like so even if they are acting wonderful, it could all be an act. My abuser did that and even told me he knew the rules of the game. Ugh!