OMG! That is so scary! What a first class jerk. I hope you related this incident to family and friends. I would want someone to know, just in case. I once had a date with a guy who pulled something similar, only the date was set up from a mutual friend(?). Anyway, when he insisted on calling me and sending threatening emails, I let him know if I got another one, THE SONS would be paying him a visit. Never heard from him again. Girl, count yourself lucky! WOW! No wonder you've given up on this type of meeting.

JJ