Like it or not, chemistry matters. And a jerk is still a jerk, no matter what he has on. Personally, I'm attracted to faces - but if behind the eyes, there are only two brain cells and one is struggling to survive....well, I think you know what I mean. Some of my favorite men haven't been 'handsome' in a classical sense, but I saw in them something attractive. Could be something as simple as kindness or as grand as superior intellect. The bottom line for women and men is, what do we do with the gifts we have?