Blue66-You said, I feel stuck and stupid, but I don't think I could handle divorce, it would be my second.

I am here to tell you that there is life after divorce! And even life after divorce number two for that matter! I am married to a wonderful guy now for 18 years. He is my 3rd husband. The first two were jerks! I stayed with each of them 8 years-about 7 too many!

I agree with chatty. Why stay in a marriage that makes you so unhappy? Who needs it? You sound like an intelligent woman. So take that and find yourself a place to live, and start living life to the fullest, without a man who so obviously has no respect or love for you at all! Life is too short to waste it on someone who does not appreciate you and love you.

[ June 17, 2005, 09:33 PM: Message edited by: wordcharmer ]