I hope thats not the case Bonnie, only good when forbidden. Now you did say something I truly believe, you can't put feelings on a schedule, and SEX are feelings after all. Sometimes 3 times a week isn't enough while sometimes every 4 months seems to be fine. Thats life, thats sex when done with emotion and things around us being in sinct. Sex becomes just another thing to do like yard work, house work, our jobs. It may be the most pleasant one but it is just one part of the extravangaza we call love and marriage. [Wink]