Lion, at first I did not know if I was reading a paragraph from a romance novel! Gosh, how romantic! What a way to stay connected. Dian, I'm sorry you suffer from fibro and RA. I have fibromyalgia too, so I can relate to the aches and pains. Do you take Flexeril? That is a commonly prescribed muscle relaxer. That helps me when/if we decide to make sparks fly. You mean it takes a drug to get me in the mood? No, that's not what I mean. LLL