Ok, nobody else is biting. It used to be 2-3 times a week (more when we were on vacation). Then exhaustion, burnout, grief and depression knocked me and my libido out for a couple of years. We had to go for about 2 years with almost no sex, but (thanks to a very patient and supportive hubby) have slowly worked our way back to once every two weeks (less on vacation). I don't know if we'll ever get back to once a week, especially with arthritis beginning to creep into the old hips and knee joints, but hey, one can always keep hoping (and trying)...