Lil
I'm sorry you are going through such pain. I've been in three bad marriages and I believe the bad ones are even more difficult to end. The pain did subside however and eventually I could look back at it as just one of the things that made me who I am.

Pain has been a large part of my life and for me at least, the only way past it has been through it. I believe in wallowing then moving on. It's hard to see now, but you will be able to do move on too. I'll pray that the pain stops and you are able to move forward.

Kate,

My marriage is not yet a year old and I know that the new wears off and infatuation fades. In my previous marriages even at this early stage, the love was fading. In this case the love is growing. I hope it continues.

Blessings