Thanks for saying that Dots. I was going to step out this a.m. and say the same thing, but had to go out with my groom.

This is OBVIOUSLY a child who is looking for affirmation and love. Shaming her for having sex isn't the answer (not that I'm saying that this is what you are doing)....but making sure she doesn't ruin her life..is so important.

I had a friend who worked in a Planned Parenthood, and she convinced me of this. That even if we don't agree with them having sex...that we need to help them protect themselves so their "mistake" doesn't show up in the form of an unwanted pregnancy.

There are lots of girls have sex at the ripe old age of 12. Sad, but true!

Keep loving that girl Liliac...your love could be lifesaving for her!

d.