There had been times that I felt sorry for myself because I wanted to get out and work but couldn't. One day, my mom said I was very fortunate that I could stay home with my kids and I realized how right she was. I never complained again and I have such compassion for women who want to be with their kids and cannot.
But at home or at work, as long as we love our kids the best way we can, we're good moms! And the kids know how much we do for love of them.