Someone asked me last night what I thought was the proper time to wait until taking a new lover once your husband had passed away? Wow, that threw me for a loop! I said I believed that it would be different for everyone. If you truly loved him deeply then maybe never. If you couldn't care less that bhe's gone, I said, "what are you waiting for?" Go for it...Too much time has been wasted already. How long would you wait if it happened to you?

I waited 14 years and then wasn't sure but took the plunge anyway and landed in smelly, smothering quicksand.
I guess I'm not the one to ask after all.
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