My menopause began around 46. There was bleeding and some discomfort and then I had to have a partial D&C. When I returned to Ohio the following year I underwent a full D&C.

The period of 'night-sweats' and sleeplessness did last for awhile---3-4 years and then it was much better.

To get through the difficult times I prayed a lot, had a supportive husband, took extra vitamins, exercised a lot and kept busy with writing and school.

I can honestly say that once I got through it, I felt a freedom I hadn't felt in years. No more periods, pain, worrying about pregnancy and my sexual life was 'kicked up' a notch.

My best advice would be try and stay as 'cool' as you can, keep moderately busy and understand that 'this too shall pass.'