I agree 100% Monica. Sometimes just being there silently with the woman is what is needed. It's sad no matter who has suffered the loss, or how old they are. I remember when my mother had one and she was older, already had five children but she was still devastated. She would dream about, and hear a baby crying; and that went on for months.
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