WELCOME to our cyber home Sherry... It sounds like they are not married?? If they are or they aren't he needs to speak to her aout the situation asking if there is something wrong, and what can he do to help. If that doesn't work and it probably won't, he can file for custody of his son but he needs to document the conditions in the home. He can get a shark woman lawyer to help him get his son. This is if they're married, if not he can just leave with the child, if his names on the birth certificate as father. It's a bad situation that will only get worse if she is allowed to get away with this behavior. No matter whats happening in her overabundant life, theres no reason to neglect her child.
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