This will sound like a clueless question, but has your daughter heard directly from you recently, that you would love to have her back (just her, not her friend)?

would agree that critiquing of her friend (or any of her friends) won't get you anywhere.

In the end, she needs in greater priority, a friendly parent who does help her understand her limits. Being just her friend is 2nd priority.

Anyway, it must be hard at this time for you. When is the time deadline for her to decide to stay or come back?





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