I don't know if it's much consolation, but WE notice your beautiful spirit. In fact, it's dazzling!

I used to feel so invisible. Still do sometimes. I'm 53 too. The only time I don't feel invisible and wish I was is when my rosacea breaks out and puts big red blotches all over my face. (But that doesn't happen anymore ever since my brother bought me Proactiv).

Anyway, I've decided I don't want a makeover, I just want to fix the "wiring in the attic". I wish there were plastic surgeons who could makeover my mind and spirit as easily as they makeover boobs and tummies!
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When you don't like a thing, change it.
If you can't change it, change the way you think about it.

(Maya Angelou)