i like living alone. in an ideal world, i would like to have a boyfriend . . . someone to have dinner with occasionally, see a movie with and other benefits smile but i don't want someone in my space fulltime . . . i cherish my space too much. i like the autonomy. in relationships i tended to become enmeshed - not good and not healthy. boundaries are much better for me.

and my ideal mate does not seem to exist on this planet - an outdoorsman who doesn't need his girlfriend to accompany him - someone who can fix things and cook. sounds more like i need a personal assistant!
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All shall
be well,
and all shall
be well,
and all manner
of thing
shall be well.

dame julian of norwich - 14th century - mystic