I’m surprised not more ladies are visiting you at this thread, Mama Red. Maybe it should have been posted under marriage or divorce…?

I have been thinking of you, and I want you to know that you aren’t alone. As for wanting to rip his face off…that’s human. My husband can bring the worst side out of me. I think it’s because men don’t take us as seriously, and we need to go to extremes so they will listen!

You’ll see, - life will be better without that additional grief. Things will fall in place, job, home and so on. Now you have a very good reason to take the reigns and organize, and not wait for something to happen by itself.
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A friend is a gift you give yourself.
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