Cyclinggal, you made the right choice. Let's see if I got this right:
1. you two were doing activities together, with no mention or pretension of it being a dating relationship.
2. He kissed you, unasked, out of the blue.
3. because he kissed you, he decided that you must be dating.
3a. even though you never said you were dating, or indicated that you wanted to.
4. now he has no one to go to these activities with, because he decided you were dating because he kissed you.
5. but he'd rather sit at home and play head games on DATING websites than go anywhere, even though he says he wants to go...

Okay, how many ways can we spell
L-O-S-E-R ???
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