Mamacat, We are here for you. I lost my parents and my step-dad all of who were my life's best friends. I wrote Mom a letter when she passed and would like to make suggestion. Keep a copy of yourssomewhere safe. I didn't and wish I had so I could read it again. I also have 2 daughters.I know it is difficult and heartbreaking to agree with their choices sometimes. I pray that tomorrow will find you remembering happy thoughts of your Mom. God bless.
chick