Beckya,
I believe all marriages are flawed in one way or another and we should give whatever marriage we are in, especially if we have children, every opportunity to succeed.

That said, the Bible appears to give two justifications for ending a marriage. One is infidelity and the other is abandonment. It sounds as if you have been abandonned so according to how you interpret the Scripture, you may have justification for a divorce should you decide to pursue one.

However, the over riding message of the Bible is Love. And with the love that only God can place in our heart, you have the option of forgiving your husband and continuing the marriage. However, are commanded to love our neighbor, we are commanded to love ourselves so you should not sacrifice yourself for anything, including a marriage. Maybe you can keep the marriage and be kind to yourself at the same time if you seek counseling, perhaps first for yourself and then for you and your husband together.

Though he might not be accepting now, with prayer, things change.
smile