Abby, I don’t think there is a more powerful and selfless love than the love a mother has for her child. And because of this love where we would sacrifice our lives for our kids…we then think;…the nerve…I love this person, my flesh and blood so much how dare he/she find happiness away from me! But by letting go, you are showing the epitome of love. And no matter what or where she is, you will always remain her mom; her haven of security and peace.

I left my mother to marry and live in Germany. Not once did she ask me not to go, or did she ever complain that I am leaving her. I am forever thankful for that. She now lives in a senior home, down the street from me, and I see her almost daily. Our bond never broke over the distance. Be gentle with your daughter. You may need her some day.