Yep Chatty, they were of limited support. And when they did, it was their father that prompted them to do it. After all this time, I just ignore their dynamic as much as possible, but this one put me over the edge. I am not making excuses for him, but then it comes to his kids he is blind. Otherwise, he is a good person.
Thank you all for your candid replies. I need this to know I am not hormonal, nuts or thyroided out (which I am, I'm checking my pulse now)It also helps for me to stand my ground. And right now that curb with him on it is lookin pretty good.
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Bonnie K