Absolutely right Chatty.

Number5 donot try to become like him. My elderly neighbor's step daughter is lying on her death bed right now, literally. She is only 56 and her liver has been deteriorating for years because of her alcoholism. Sadly, she's at the end now and cannot even eat or keep down as little as a sip of water. Hospice is with her now. She'll never see her daughter again or watch her grandchildren grow up and get married. Her husband is an alcoholic too and not much help in caring for her right now so hospice is a blessing in making her last days comfortable.