It's so hard to watch others spiral down in addictions and not be able to do anything. I agree that people don't do anything until they are ready - which can be so frustrating to those of us who care. I have a brother who is homeless on and off due to his drinking and drugging and it breaks my heart not to be able to help him. I don't understand why he keeps choosing that lifestyle but her does.

I still think it's a good idea to say how you feel, with care and compassion and kindness. You never know the seeds you may be planting.