Humlan, I can feel your deep, deep pain with this issue. I wish I had easy answers, but I don't...

I'm sending lots of hugs and courage your way to sort through all of this in a way that honors yourself, R, and your relationship. Somehow, I believe, you will find a way...
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Casey Dawes
Wise Woman Shining
Supporting women business owners to step into their power as business leaders.